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The difference between developmental delays and behavioural disorders
- July 15, 2023
- Posted by: Jouré Rustemeyer
- Category: ADHD Autism CPD Courses Disabilities Neurodivergent Special Needs

The difference between developmental delays and behavioural disorders
As parents, caregivers, or guardians of young children, we are always on the lookout for signs that our little ones may need some extra help to reach their full potential. But with so many different terms and diagnoses floating around out there, it can be tough to know what exactly we’re looking for. In this blog post, we’ll be tackling a common source of confusion – developmental delays vs behavioural disorders – and exploring how they differ from each other. So whether you’re concerned about your child’s progress or just curious about the topic in general, read on!
Developmental delays
Developmental delays refer to a delay in the development of one or more skillsets. This can include delays in physical, cognitive, social, and/or emotional development. Developmental delays can be mild, moderate, or severe.
Behavioural disorders refer to a pattern of behaviours that are disruptive and cause problems in functioning. These behaviours can include aggression, impulsivity, defiance, and/or self-injurious behaviours. Behavioural disorders can be mild, moderate, or severe.
While developmental delays and behavioural disorders share some similarities, there are also important differences between the two. Developmental delays are typically diagnosed during early childhood whereas behavioural disorders tend to be diagnosed during adolescence or adulthood. Developmental delays can be caused by a variety of factors including genetic abnormalities, prenatal exposure to toxins, and/or perinatal injury.
Behavioural disorders are often caused by a combination of genetic and environmental factors such as family history of mental illness, exposure to trauma/stressful events, and/or brain damage. Treatment for developmental delays typically focuses on promoting skill development through interventions such as speech therapy, occupational therapy, and/or physical therapy. Treatment for behavioural disorders often includes medication and/or psychotherapy.
Behavioural disorders can be very difficult to treat, and can often lead to significant difficulties in functioning. Developmental delays, on the other hand, can typically be resolved with appropriate interventions and support.
There are a number of different types of behavioural disorders that can affect children and adolescents. The most common are Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Conduct Disorder (CD) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD).
ADHD is a condition that is characterised by problems with concentration, hyperactivity and impulsiveness. It is one of the most common behavioural disorders, affecting around 5% of school-aged children.
CD is a more serious disorder that is characterised by aggressive and antisocial behaviour. It often starts in childhood and can lead to problems in adulthood if not treated. ODD is a less serious form of CD, characterised by oppositional behaviour such as defiance and argumentativeness. It is estimated that 45% of children with ADHD may develop ODD.
If your child is displaying any of these behaviours, it’s important to seek professional help. A qualified psychologist or psychiatrist will be able to diagnose and treat the disorder.
The difference between the two
Most children go through developmental milestones at different rates. However, when there is a significant delay in one or more areas of development, it may be indicative of a developmental disorder.
Behavioural disorders, on the other hand, are characterized by patterns of behaviour that are disruptive and cause problems in functioning. These can include disorders such as ADHD, OCD, and autism spectrum disorder.
There are some key differences between developmental delays and behavioural disorders:
– Developmental delays refer to a delay in one or more areas of development, such as gross motor skills, fine motor skills, speech/language, or social skills. Behavioural disorders are characterized by patterns of behaviour that are disruptive and cause problems in functioning.
– Developmental delays can be due to a variety of factors, such as medical conditions, genetic abnormalities, or exposure to toxins. Behavioural disorders often have a genetic component and may be influenced by brain structure or neurochemical imbalances.
– Developmental delays typically become apparent in early childhood, while behavioural disorders may not be diagnosed until later in childhood or adolescence.
– Children with developmental delays may eventually catch up to their peers if they receive early intervention and support. Children with behavioural disorders often require long-term treatment and management.
Examples of developmental delays
There are a number of different types of developmental delays that can occur in children. These can include delays in physical development, such as gross or fine motor skills, or delays in cognitive development, such as language or social skills. Developmental delays can also occur in emotional and behavioural development.
Some common examples of developmental delays include:
· Delays in reaching milestones such as sitting, standing, walking, talking or toilet training
· Poor muscle tone or coordination
· Difficulty with feeding or eating
· Problems with sleeping
· Poor social skills or interaction with others
· Behavioural problems such as tantrums, aggression or self-injurious behaviour.
Examples of behavioural disorders
There are a few key examples of behavioural disorders that differ from developmental delays. One example is ADHD, or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. This disorder is characterized by impulsivity, inattention, and/or hyperactivity. It often occurs alongside other disorders like anxiety or depression. Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is another common behavioural disorder. ASD can cause problems with social skills, communication, sensory difficulties and repetitive behaviours. ODD is a less serious form of CD, characterized by oppositional behaviour such as defiance and argumentativeness. It is estimated that 45% of children with ADHD may develop ODD. OCD, or Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, is another example of a behavioural disorder. OCD is marked by obsessive thoughts and repetitive behaviours. People with OCD may have difficulty functioning in their daily lives due to their compulsions.
Causes of developmental delays and behavioural disorders
There are many possible causes of developmental delays and behavioural disorders. Some children may have a genetic or neurological condition that affects their development. Others may have experienced trauma or exposure to toxins during pregnancy or early childhood.
Some common causes of developmental delays include:
• Autism spectrum disorder
• Down syndrome
• Fetal alcohol syndrome
• Fragile X syndrome
• Cerebral palsy
Some common causes of behavioural disorders include:
• Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)
• Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD)
• Conduct disorder (CD)
Many children experience some degree of developmental delay or behaviour problems at some point in their lives. However, most children will eventually catch up to their peers if they receive appropriate intervention and support.
How to get help for developmental delays and behavioural disorders
If your child is having difficulty meeting milestones or has started to display behavioural problems, you may be wondering if they have a developmental delay or behavioural disorder. Developmental delays are characterised by a child falling behind in key areas of development, such as crawling, walking or talking. Behavioural disorders, on the other hand, refer to patterns of behaviour that are disruptive and cause problems in functioning.
There are many different types of developmental delays and behavioural disorders, so it is important to get an accurate diagnosis from a qualified professional. If you are concerned about your child’s development or behaviour, the first step is to talk to your GP or paediatrician. They will be able to assess your child and refer you to appropriate services if necessary.
There are a range of services available to support children with developmental delays and behavioural disorders. These include early intervention programs, speech therapy, occupational therapy and psychological services. Support from family and friends can also be invaluable.
If you think your child may have a developmental delay or behavioural disorder, don’t hesitate to seek help. With the right support, most children can overcome these challenges and lead happy and fulfilling lives.
Conclusion
Developmental delays and behavioural disorders are two distinct but related conditions that can affect a child’s development. Knowing the differences between them is key to understanding how best to support your child. While developmental delays require early intervention and specialized care, behavioural disorders typically require more comprehensive treatment requiring professional counselling or therapy. With the right tools, parents can work with their children to help them reach their fullest potential.