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Thug ways: Abusing An Autism Diagnosis To defend Toxic Behaviour
- February 22, 2025
- Posted by: Jouré Rustemeyer
- Category: Autism Neurodivergent

Autism has become a widely discussed topic as more public figures share their personal experiences with the condition. This visibility can foster greater understanding and acceptance. However, some celebrities, on the other hand, seem to be abusing an autism diagnosis as an excuse for inappropriate or harmful behaviour. While autism affects social communication and behaviour, it is important to note that it does not remove the need for accountability.A diagnosis explains challenges—and should never be used to defend toxic behaviour.
Some public figures openly share their autism diagnosis as part of their personal story. This can be a powerful tool for advocacy and reducing stigma. However, some people use their diagnosis to justify behaviour that goes beyond autism’s core challenges, creating serious issues. While autism may involve social difficulties, it does not inherently impair one’s ability to discern right from wrong. Using a diagnosis as a convenient shield for unacceptable behaviour oversimplifies a complex condition and can perpetuate harmful stereotypes.
Ultimately, it is essential to maintain a balanced and informed perspective. No one should misappropriate an autism diagnosis as a free pass to avoid personal responsibility. Instead, we must encourage a dialogue that recognizes both the strengths and challenges inherent in neurodiversity—while upholding the principle that every individual, regardless of neurological differences, remains accountable for their actions. By promoting accurate information and challenging misrepresentations, we can foster a more respectful and constructive conversation about autism in our society.
Kanye West and Autism: Separating Fact from Fiction
Recently, Kanye West made headlines by coming out as autistic in an interview. While any discussion about neurodiversity is valuable, it’s important to address some of the statements made during the interview that do not align with established scientific understanding of autism.
In the interview, Kanye West described symptoms that current clinical criteria do not typically associate with autism. Autism involves challenges in social communication and repetitive or restricted interests. However, the traits he described do not match these diagnostic markers. Furthermore, while autism can indeed cause social difficulties, it in no way impairs a person’s ability to understand or differentiate between right and wrong. Moral reasoning and ethical judgment are complex processes that remain intact in autistic individuals.
Autism vs Bipolar Disorder
Previously Kanye West publicly stated that he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder (2016). Let’s have a look at a direct comparison between ASD and bipolar disorder.
Autism and bipolar disorder are distinct conditions, but they can sometimes share overlapping traits, leading to misdiagnosis or confusion. Here’s a comparison of their symptoms:
1. Core Differences
- Autism is a neurodevelopmental condition affecting social communication, sensory processing, and repetitive behaviours.
- Bipolar Disorder is a mood disorder characterized by extreme shifts between depressive and manic states.
2. Symptom Comparison
Symptom | Autism | Bipolar Disorder |
---|---|---|
Social Challenges | Difficulty with social cues, communication, and relationships | May struggle socially during mood episodes but not consistently |
Emotional Regulation | Difficulty identifying and managing emotions | Extreme mood swings between mania and depression |
Repetitive Behaviours | Rigid routines, special interests, repetitive actions | Not a core symptom, but impulsive behaviour can occur in mania |
Mood Swings | Generally stable moods, though meltdowns or shutdowns can occur | Cycles between depressive and manic episodes |
Energy Levels | Can be consistently high or low, depending on the person | Fluctuates drastically between mania (high energy) and depression (low energy) |
Speech Patterns | Can be monotone, overly formal, or have unusual intonation | Rapid, pressured speech during mania; slowed speech during depression |
Sensory Sensitivities | Heightened or reduced sensitivity to sounds, textures, or lights | Not a core feature, though sensory overload can occur in mania |
Sleep Patterns | Difficulty with sleep regulation, often lifelong | Reduced need for sleep in mania, excessive sleep in depression |
Impulsivity | Can struggle with impulse control, but often due to executive function challenges | High impulsivity, especially during manic episodes |
3. Overlapping Symptoms
Some individuals may have both autism and bipolar disorder, making diagnosis complex. Shared traits like emotional dysregulation, social difficulties, and impulsivity need careful evaluation to determine the underlying cause.
This discussion is not about invalidating personal experiences but rather about ensuring that public statements reflect accurate, evidence-based information. Autism is a multifaceted condition, and misrepresenting its symptoms can lead to confusion and perpetuate stereotypes. As we celebrate neurodiversity and work towards broader acceptance, it’s essential that we rely on well-established research and expert consensus to guide our understanding.
By keeping the conversation rooted in accurate information, we can help dispel myths and support a more informed dialogue around autism. Let’s continue to promote education and acceptance while ensuring that public discussions reflect both personal narratives and scientific realities.
When someone is never held accountable for their actions, they may develop behavioural patterns that impact their relationships, work, and overall well-being. Here are some common symptoms:
1. Entitlement & Lack of Responsibility
- Expects special treatment without putting in effort
- Blames others for their mistakes or failures
- Avoids taking responsibility for their actions
2. Poor Emotional Regulation
- Becomes defensive or aggressive when confronted
- Struggles to handle criticism, even when constructive
- Lashes out or plays the victim instead of addressing issues
3. Manipulative or Deceptive Behaviour
- Twists the truth to avoid blame
- Gaslights others to make them question reality
- Uses guilt or emotional outbursts to escape consequences
4. Relationship Difficulties
- Struggles to maintain healthy, respectful relationships
- Disregards the feelings and needs of others
- Repeats harmful behaviours without concern for their impact
5. Impulsivity & Recklessness
- Acts without considering consequences
- Dismisses rules or social norms as unimportant
- Engages in risky behaviours without guilt or remorse
6. Avoidance & Justifications
- Makes excuses rather than learning from mistakes
- Deflects responsibility by changing the subject or blaming circumstances
- Seeks validation from enablers instead of reflecting on their actions
Disclaimer: The author shares their perspective on a complex issue and does not intend to single out or defame any individual. For accurate information on autism, refer to trusted sources and consult qualified professionals.